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Waiting patiently for the one to
make us feel complete has been on top our list. We like to keep up with the
demands of our innate self in lieu of the satisfaction we all are craving for.
Indeed, we want to feel gratified and appreciated by another; be loved by an
individual aside from those we are accustomed to. In short, to be in the radar
of another individual and be aptly recognized means we are that somebody to
that someone.
We do not yearn to be famous (out
there) but maybe in somebody’s heart we are. Uplifting and thrilling, yes, but
more so if we know of it. To be secretly in love with another could be as
suicidal as crossing the streets at night without any reflective devices on
hand. Although keeping it first in the sack means you are careful enough to
understand the feelings of the other, still frustration could result while
standing in line.
Sometimes, it pays to talk and
express how you really feel. At times, it is best to keep quiet and talk only when
necessary. Giving away or professing your love to another, may you be a guy or
a girl, has been one of the most difficult ordeals in any one’s life. Be a well-trained confessor or an amateur, opening thy mouth to speak of what you
truly feel is hard. Indeed, it is. Actually, it is not the speaking part that
is scary; it is the reaction of the person being told of the feeling that is
hard. The anticipation is what makes the whole ordeal scary. It is like looking
straight into a clown’s eyes.
To keep calm of the situation and
let the situation take its course is an option. One that is safe but full of
regrets. It could be that you are not ready or you think both of you are not
but, at the end of the day, you are but responsible only to your thoughts and
feelings and no other. You have to bear in mind that you need to satisfy your
innate self over and above. That you have to bear in mind the need to be
innately empowered before you can be start thinking of others.
On the other hand, to say it and
have no care of the possible consequence is one tough act to consummate. Easier
said, indeed, but doing and owning it proves to be harder than it seems. The
moment you let your emotions out of the box, you are unable to control it thus you
end up with an intellectually and emotionally distraught life. Again, be
mindful of your own needs. Empowering the self begets control.
Whatever way you might want to
partake in, always bear in mind that you need to be a self before you impart
part of yourself to others. Discover how to innately empower yourself and at
the same time control it before you do something that would make you regret it.
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