Learning to Love Again with the Aid of NLP and TLT

To be happy is one thing but to be able to maintain and sustain such is another. For one, I am happy. I may not be with another significant other at this moment but I am happy as I am stable. I am working thus I am able to support my yearnings in life. I am surrounded with people I call friends that, anytime of the day, I can talk to them about everything and anything under the sun. Importantly, I have a family that supports me and contributes well into the perfection and completeness of my life.

I would be a hypocrite if I say that I am not one who gets jealous of those who are with a significant other in their lives but , with all honesty, I can say that I am happy of where I am now and who I am with. The time I spent gawking at lovers have passed as I have learned to embrace what I have. I used to dwell on the imaginary and question why I have no one in particular to be right by my side, but as hours turned into days, I have accepted that this is not the right time to fall in love. 

Making A Move With NLP And TLT

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Waiting patiently for the one to make us feel complete has been on top our list. We like to keep up with the demands of our innate self in lieu of the satisfaction we all are craving for. Indeed, we want to feel gratified and appreciated by another; be loved by an individual aside from those we are accustomed to. In short, to be in the radar of another individual and be aptly recognized means we are that somebody to that someone.

We do not yearn to be famous (out there) but maybe in somebody’s heart we are. Uplifting and thrilling, yes, but more so if we know of it. To be secretly in love with another could be as suicidal as crossing the streets at night without any reflective devices on hand. Although keeping it first in the sack means you are careful enough to understand the feelings of the other, still frustration could result while standing in line.

Discover The Colors Of The Spectrum Through NLP And TLT

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I admit, I am one of impulse. I act on the gravity of the situation and never on the rationale behind such. Although I use my rationality in relation to the major decisions in my life, I act on impulse on the superficiality that makes up my day. Yes, I do that. I let the wind take me to where I want to without having a map on hand. I want to expect the unexpected thus I do not expect. Expectation begets frustration thus I do not want to be in the slope.

Love works in mysterious ways as life works in the darkness. Do not get me wrong, I love life and without such I would be in a dungeon with all the creatures of the dark. However, I believe in the movement of life; that it all starts with darkness then comes the light. I believe in the evolution of life thus in the evolution of the self. I am not one to dwell on the negativity of a particular ordeal as I am one to seek the light at the end of the tunnel. In other words, I have learned to accept that change brings forth positivity in the self despite the presence of negativity.

Heartbroken not allowed in Time Line Therapy®

Getting your heart broken by the very person who made you believe in love is one of the worst feelings anyone could ever feel. Shattered would have to be an understatement as you would feel all broken, disturbed, and confused inside. Emotional outbursts would hinder you from being logical and rational, thus impair your capacity to intellectually decipher the situation you are in.

You become lost and bewildered as you try to rationalize on the rationality of your status. Trying to comprehend the situation implies your desire to understand the reason behind it all. Things do not normally happen without a reason, thus digging deeper into the subconscious would enable you to understand the rationale behind your current condition.

Flipping life for the better with the aid of Time Line Therapy®

According to studies, we have a certain psychological pyramid that we need to climb in order to actualize our existence. Psychologists believe that climbing up the ladder would warrant maturity and a deeper sense of self-understanding in an individual. It would make him susceptible to change, and thus able to realize his very existence.

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To be aware of the self means to be one with the innate self. The development of the innate self warrants a thorough and deep understanding. In other words, the innate self requires a deeper sense of action that appertains to the involvement and participation of the subconscious.

Be inspired to be in love; learn how through Time Line Therapy®

Have you ever felt like giving up on love? Could you no longer handle an emotional roller coaster ride and thereinafter end up vomiting from too many emotional outbursts?

Love comes and goes. It is like the wind; you can feel it, but you can never control it. Much like our emotions, we can never learn how to control it and hold onto it by the neck – we either run aground or overhead when we are emotionally distraught. Simply put, we feel hopeless whenever we venture into an emotional situation.

Loving the self genuinely through Time Line Therapy®

Have you ever been in love? Felt all so emotional that your intellect and emotions could no longer meet halfway? More so, have you questioned yourself why you fell in love when you undeniably told yourself no to?

Feeling something special or a strong emotional attachment towards a particular person exemplifies the fact that you care. The care you feel may not be as superficial as that of “friendship care”, but rather a much stronger feeling that directs towards love. Yes, love – the most confusing feeling in the world.

Time Line Therapy® made me fall in love all over again

The moment you fall in love, everything becomes perfect. Details of nonsensical value invade your rationality as you become blinded by your emotions.  You lose your rationality in lieu of the world thus preempting your ability to unlock the great mystery behind love itself.

Falling in love is easy; it is the falling out of love that is not. It takes away your emotional stability that invokes you to become shortly blinded by the interplay of feelings and sensations that hinder you from understanding the whole situation. Given the circumstances, we become engrossed with whatever we are feeling that we tend to dissuade from our innate yearnings.

To love is to be in love with Time Line Therapy®

As human and limited as I am, I would say that I have been on the love bandwagon and have experienced its turbulence. I have cried and smiled because of love – and I do not regret every tear I have shed and boisterous laughter I have echoed during those times. Given the chance, I would love to do it all again.

If you love something, let it go is by far my all-time favorite cliché advice. I have heard it a million times and have given it as a piece of “reality-check” to some of my friends, too. In truth, I have difficulty realizing its essence, but I know that, somewhere along the road, I would be enlightened by its magnificence and understand its meaning.

Left Behind? Let Time Line Therapy(r) help you

People come and people go. Like material possessions, they can [literally] leave you breathless and off guard. Indeed, they can contribute to the well being of another person given the intensity or impact that they leave behind. The harsh reality of being left behind warrants a positive response so easy to partake but hard to traverse.

In this vicious cycle called life, man would always experience being left behind. May it be in love or life in general, the idea of being left behind is so inevitable it could actually make or break an individual. It could result in broken filial ties, conked up friendship and wrecked love life. The negative results are as endless as your imagination, however, there could also be a positive effect on the self that if utilized thoroughly could bring you to greater heights.

Love through rose colored glasses

We long for the truth. We long for understanding. We long to love. However, most of all, we long to be loved. We have a certain mindset that appertains directly to the idea of love, loving and being loved to feel complete. The vicious cycle of life, as it is coined, would never be complete without the presence of love. Alternatively, would it ever be ‘real’ without love.

The only wrong thing (in this life) would be to deny yourself with what your heart truly feels. Yes, I admit, the whole love bug thing is one state I long to be in. I want to feel the butterflies in my stomach flutter at your very site, I want to feel the spark and the electricity emanating from you to me and I want to feel the warmth of your presence next to me.

At the beginning with you. This is my story. This is our story. This is us.

I love me. For the longest time, I believed that no good person would ever love me anymore. The past months proved all wrong as I underwent the tedious process of moving on from a previous relationship that made me hate my life so much I had to take medications to be well and to being in love with the next person who made me happy. I love me. I had to keep myself well for the reason that I need to be well to be able to live my life according to my plan.

Falling out of Love

“Never love anybody who treats you like you are  ordinary”

Oscar Wilde

For most, the hardest part of falling in love is eventually anticipating that there is going to be an end – in every beginning, there is an inevitable end. No matter how hard we try to turn things around, some things are really not meant to be.