The Dynamic Duo of NLP And Time Line Therapy®

Last time I cried, I was all drenched with tears and sweat that I could hardly breathe. I was so caught up with the moment that I was lost for rationale and more so of the presence of time. I was quiet slumped and sulking over a bountiful spill that I have not been aware of my personal needs. All I could think of was how to put my aching heart to rest. 

I know crying my eyes off won’t help me get by, more so, surpass the ordeal. I need to control myself, though I am trying, still to no avail. I cannot stop even if I want to. Of the days that I kept things to myself, I would end up sleeping after a tearful session. By the time I wake up, I would be all sore and weary of the world around me. 

Getting back on track with TLT (Time Line Therapy® )

Do you always find yourself sulking over a petty problem? Have you been munching on those potato chips all day long while slouched on the couch? How many pints of ice cream have you devoured in the past 3 hours? Are you trying to throw your life away?

It is of no contest that we are but limited. We have the tendency to yearn for temporary happiness, and thus submit our selves to anything that could make us happy. It is of no surprise that we opt to believe in the power of material things than in our own capacity to surpass and overcome whatever circumstance we might face. In other words, we do not believe that we can do it, thus we always end up frustrated.

With a smile with Time Line Therapy®

Have you ever wished you had the power to control your emotions? Hold off any tears from rolling down your eyes and teach yourself to be numb of the pain that comes with it? In other words, have you wished you were dumb and numb for a minute to devoid your self of unwarranted feelings?

Emotional bandwagon is the worst but most rewarding experience any one of us could undergo. One moment you feel all broken up in gazillion pieces and then you would be back on track the next time around. It allows you to feel the pain and let it linger a little too long in your system and once you fall really hard, it makes you see the brighter picture and you are transformed into a whole new person.

Loving the self genuinely through Time Line Therapy®

Have you ever been in love? Felt all so emotional that your intellect and emotions could no longer meet halfway? More so, have you questioned yourself why you fell in love when you undeniably told yourself no to?

Feeling something special or a strong emotional attachment towards a particular person exemplifies the fact that you care. The care you feel may not be as superficial as that of “friendship care”, but rather a much stronger feeling that directs towards love. Yes, love – the most confusing feeling in the world.

There is no stopping us with Time Line Therapy®

We all have our purpose. We have our dreams, goals, objectives and aspirations in life that enables us to live our life the way it is now.  Past, present and future circumstances all contribute to my quest for a better and well productive life ahead.

Every day is a struggle. We encounter circumstances and events that either make or break us. We may stumble upon new ideas and beliefs and at the same time stagger with age-old practices and notions that once made an impact in our lives. The struggle heightens as we traverse life every single day.

The people we meet, events we encounter and encumbrances we are faced with contribute to how we are to live the life we have now. We may particularly be influenced by some while disheartened by some but, at the end of the day, what matters most is our ability to establish a deeper connection between our conscious and subconscious part of the brain.  

Seize life with Time Line Therapy®

Aside from the fact that we are intellectually stimulating, we are also sensitive, emotional and melodramatic. We overemphasize on our emotions that we develop a certain knack for disallowing the intellect to make the decisions and let the emotions rule over us. We take intellectual matters for granted and depend on our emotions to cater to it. The growing number of failures, defeats and mistakes we stumble upon are all related to our emotions.

Indeed, the aforementioned scenario brings forth a certain degree of truthfulness that enables us to examine how our emotions really work. We may not agree with it wholeheartedly but the moment we accept and realize it, we become aware of the intensity that surrounds it.

To love is to be in love with Time Line Therapy®

As human and limited as I am, I would say that I have been on the love bandwagon and have experienced its turbulence. I have cried and smiled because of love – and I do not regret every tear I have shed and boisterous laughter I have echoed during those times. Given the chance, I would love to do it all again.

If you love something, let it go is by far my all-time favorite cliché advice. I have heard it a million times and have given it as a piece of “reality-check” to some of my friends, too. In truth, I have difficulty realizing its essence, but I know that, somewhere along the road, I would be enlightened by its magnificence and understand its meaning.

Let Time Line Therapy® help you liberate your self

With the help of Time Line Therapy®, an individual will be able to control his emotions and at the same time enlighten his subconscious—to enlighten the subconscious warrants a deeper understanding of the capacity of the self to accept defeat, failure, and mistakes. More so, an individual will learn how to let go and unload burdensome negative emotions in the self that hinder growth and development.

The subconscious, though sleeping, is understood to be the storage area of the brain that houses our deep, dark life secrets. The moment things are disrupted and disturbed, we become lost and things would tend to fall out of place. We become anxious, uneasy, and unable to focus. We tend to lose our concentration and get distracted from important things. With such, we become illogical and irrational.

Taking chances with Time Line Therapy®

I am a self-confessed emotional junkie. I hoard all my feelings and emotions in my subconscious and load them until I can manage. In other words, I have difficulty in releasing and letting go of my past.

Like you, I have the ability to forego personal desires in order to make others happy. Even at my own expense. Through this, I keep all my frustrations, aches, mistakes and sadness and embrace doom in me. I let go of “happy hour” and settle for the dark clouds. For me, it is best to be sad than see others suffer of my personal yearning.

Be defined by Time Line Therapy®

The moment you become attached to someone, your sense of identity disappears. You begin to pattern your life according to how he is with his. Simply put, you become engulfed by someone else’s definition – how you are to act, to feel and communicate.  Thus rendering you limited as a mice inside a maze box.

The aforementioned scenario takes place whether we like it or not. We become involved in a particular circumstance or an individual that warrants us to detach ourselves from our personal agenda of living the life we have always wanted. When we love a person, we become so attached that we lose our sense of identity. We make him or her center of our world. With this, we become lost and confused of how we are to life our own lives.

Sick of love songs? Learn to love them again with Time Line Therapy®

As I put on my headphones, I automatically shift to another world. A place where nothing could seem to go wrong and everything that I need to say or express comes out with every lyrics of the song I am listening to. The emotions overflow as I listen further and embrace the meaning of the song in my life. I became one with the song and the song becomes my words.

Most often than not, I listen to a song and have it on my playlist on repeat for as long as I can fathom the song. I’m a terrible listener because whenever I like a particular song, I listen to it over and over. 

I used to do that whenever I am undergoing a painful phase in my life. I used to think that songs were specifically made just for me. That everything I need to express comes out right through the songs I listen to. However, like all other things, it must come to an end.

One step at a time with Time Line Therapy®

Life is a matter of choices. It takes a great deal of rationality and logic to be able to understand it 24 hours a day. It proves to be the most tedious task in any one’s life but more so, the most rewarding. It paves the way for the self to be in sync with the world and at the same time merit recognition of the endless possibilities of the self. Simply put, life is what we make of ourselves.   

The moment we make a choice and act upon it proves our readiness to face the world. We become responsive to the demands of the world that which in return warrants an exhaustion of the self in all its sense. Our ability to be rational makes it easier for us to comprehend the many circumstances that we face and, at the same time, gives us the reason to think logically. Being reasonable, logical and rational are all but products of the past and the present combined. More so, a part of the future as foreseen contributes to our ability to think.

Employing your experiences with Time Line Therapy®

Experiences are but the most influential elements in our lives. Consequential as circumstances, it could make or break an individual’s quest for a better life.  Taken either as positive or negative, experiences remain to be a prototypical requirement in unmasking lives many facets.

A steady life rhythm connotes emotional stability. With the aforementioned, an individual is able to control the pace and keep to a tee the life he has now and would have in the future. However, it should be understood that emotional stability does not only appertain to emotions and feelings but rather it should be understood to mean the whole being of an individual.

The philosophical etymology of life according to Time Line Therapy®

Do not ask the meaning of what life is. Define it.

Indeed, we must not ask what life nor warrant a perfect definition as there is no such thing as perfection. We must not dwell on the brilliance of living the life we have now and the life we would have in the future. To talk jargons about life and our existence would permit the use of bourgeoisie words that even our ancestors would not be able to fathom.

Whenever one invokes a discourse about life, I think of Michel Foucault and his philosophical brilliance in shedding light into the topic of life itself.

Neuro Linguistic Programming answers your “What Ifs”

What if I told you I love you before you left, would things be different between us?

Realization is masked by regret. We think we have come to a realization but the truth of the matter is that we regret not doing what we have wanted done or achieved. We feel sorry and pity ourselves for what could have been but nowhere are we ready to accept our failure to act on our gusto. We always dwell on the past thus allowing us to forget the importance of our present in relation to our future.

Change : a curse or a blessing?

Human as we are, we opt for assurance. Whether it is in the workplace, in school, in love or in life, we want something that is sturdy, steady, and sure. Taking risks and chances are rendered foreign as what we want is something with finality.

Fragile as we are, we tend to be physically and emotionally attached to things. We value and put value on every little thing possible – this includes scribbles on pieces of papers, cinema tickets and even candy wrappers.

At the beginning with you. This is my story. This is our story. This is us.

I love me. For the longest time, I believed that no good person would ever love me anymore. The past months proved all wrong as I underwent the tedious process of moving on from a previous relationship that made me hate my life so much I had to take medications to be well and to being in love with the next person who made me happy. I love me. I had to keep myself well for the reason that I need to be well to be able to live my life according to my plan.

Tad James: Living free

Dr. Tad James, MS, PhD. has been teaching Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), Time Line Therapy^® and Hypnosis for over 25 years.  He, together with his equally dynamic wife Dr. Adriana James, MA, PhD, founded the Tad James Co, an organization that practices and teaches NLP.  He further served as the president of the American Board of Hypnotherapy for over ten (10) years.  Dr. Tad James, Ms, PhD has also written seven (7) very successful NLP books.

Young Tad

Tad James was born and raised in Washington DC. His father, Preston James (then Chairman of the Geography Department at the Syracuse University) taught him traditional values and beliefs in life while his mother, Eileen James, taught him equality and that each of us has potential to create miracles. With such an upbringing, high expectations were set thus causing the young Tad to excel and be the most successful in whatever field he chooses to pursue.

“I never let my mind think bad thoughts.”

-Eileen James

Professional Tad

Tad James attended Syracuse University and graduated with a Masters Degree in Mass Communication. He began his professional career as a manager and soon managing his own radio station. Thereafter, becoming a consultant.

Dr. Tad James, MS, PhD
Tad James Co.

Tad and NLP

His perpetual social experience coupled with his strong positive background led him to discover useful communication techniques that could affect both the personal and professional lives of an individual. His curiosity led him to study Neuro Linguistic Programming or NLP and thereafter develop a discipline known as Time Line Therapy. His name has become synonymous with NLP and he has used his discovery to transform the lives of others.

In 1988, he published his first book entitled Time Line Therapy and the Basis of Personality®.

The Time Line Therapy® technique has become a respected and effective model for affecting positive change in the family, business and interpersonal career paths. Further, it has been used to help improve symptoms of post-traumatic stress in people living in war zone regions.

Tad James was the first NLP trainer to do Learn NLP Training in an accelerated format. More so, he designed and implemented the seven (7) day NLP training before anyone else. Further, his accelerated format for an NLP Practitioner in only seven (7) days (with pre-study) has later become the standard in the industry. 

Join Tad and Adriana James and discover the wonders of NLP, Time Line Therapy® and Hypnosis. Contact them through their website http://www.nlpcoaching.com/