They say decisions make or break an individual’s perception of life. For some most of us, decision-making can mean means being stuck in a catch 22 situations where either we have an extreme positive or negative end result. We also have that ability to think beyond the usual and anticipate countless options after options without going over the intensity of our thinking. We opt for the painful road than the paved one without even realizing the reason why we want to be hurt before being happy.
To decide means to stay focus on the givens. However, are we always focused on the problem itself or we just like to think of it that way?
As wise and mature individuals, we tend to over think. We come to that phase in life wherein we base our [present] life with past experiences and future negative inferences. Never do we decide based on what is now – or on what we have [now].
The present remains a laboratory based on the past and the future.