Have you ever been in love? Felt all so emotional that your intellect and emotions could no longer meet halfway? More so, have you questioned yourself why you fell in love when you undeniably told yourself no to?
Feeling something special or a strong emotional attachment towards a particular person exemplifies the fact that you care. The care you feel may not be as superficial as that of “friendship care”, but rather a much stronger feeling that directs towards love. Yes, love – the most confusing feeling in the world.
When you fall in love, you get too emotionally attached, thus you wreck your intellectual capacity to be logical, practical, and reasonable. Your incapacity to control your emotions is the raison d’être behind this. You become selfless and dependent that you lose your sense of direction. You become lost that you seek to fill the void in order to feel whole again.
However, this “you make me whole” concept is one misconception that needs to be eradicated. Be knowledgeable enough and at the same time considerate of your own self-value. You are complete—already complete, thus you do not need anything or anyone to complete you further. The love you feel towards another is not love per se, but rather longing of the self to feel belongingness and appreciation.
Yes, you seek for gratitude and pleasure that is why you need others to be in your life. You want to feel taken care of and looked after by another. Not that you cannot take care of yourself, but you want others to be there when you need them. You want to feel needed and at the same time valued. You like control in your life.
Time Line Therapy® offers a set of techniques that enables the innate self to gain emotional control; it can pave the way for you to be in tune with your life. The feeling of control or being able to steer the wheel will allow you to grow and move towards attaining your goals and objectives in life. It will make you adjust to the world, thus allow you to be the person you want to be and at the same time, live the life you have always wanted.
The next time you fall in love, do not lose yourself in the process. Be careful of pouring out your emotions for it might ruin your outlook in life.
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