Have you ever been in love?
Felt all so emotional that your intellect and emotions could no longer meet
halfway? More so, have you questioned yourself why you fell in love when you
undeniably told yourself no to?
Feeling something special or a
strong emotional attachment towards a particular person exemplifies the fact
that you care. The care you feel may not be as superficial as that of
“friendship care”, but rather a much stronger feeling that directs towards
love. Yes, love – the most confusing feeling in the world.
When you fall in love, you get
too emotionally attached, thus you wreck your intellectual capacity to be
logical, practical, and reasonable. Your incapacity to control your emotions is
the raison d’être behind this. You become selfless and dependent that you lose your
sense of direction. You become lost that you seek to fill the void in order to
feel whole again.
However, this “you make me
whole” concept is one misconception that needs to be eradicated. Be
knowledgeable enough and at the same time considerate of your own self-value.
You are complete—already complete, thus you do not need anything or anyone to
complete you further. The love you feel towards another is not love per se, but
rather longing of the self to feel belongingness and appreciation.
Yes, you seek for gratitude
and pleasure that is why you need others to be in your life. You want to feel taken
care of and looked after by another. Not that you cannot take care of yourself,
but you want others to be there when you need them. You want to feel needed and
at the same time valued. You like control in your life.
Time Line Therapy® offers a
set of techniques that enables the innate self to gain emotional control; it can
pave the way for you to be in tune with your life. The feeling of control or
being able to steer the wheel will allow you to grow and move towards attaining
your goals and objectives in life. It will make you adjust to the world, thus
allow you to be the person you want to be and at the same
time, live the life you have always wanted.
The next time you fall in love,
do not lose yourself in the process. Be careful of pouring out your emotions
for it might ruin your outlook in life.
Visit www.easynlp.com
and discover how to love innately and genuinely without putting your own self
on the line.
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